Friday, February 21, 2014

Glowing in the Dark...

Glowing in the dark is my life's Flame...
Thinking If this is for what I Came...
Oh Dear Lord help me understand this Game...
The Game is getting Tougher...
Rules are getting Rougher...
Dear Lord help me move without having so much to Suffer...
Playing tough has always been my Choice...
Not giving up has always been my soul's Voice...
Guessing if this is life or an emotional Race...
Dear Lord  bless me with your Wisdom's Grace...
Your Wisdom and Lessons have made me Grow...
Trust is what I have, in my eyes will it always Glow...
I find my solace in making others Laugh...
Considering this your will, I take it as my Autograph...
With your eyes watching , I wont Stop Ever...
Karma is my force,  I will let it Flop Never...









Monday, October 7, 2013

The Wrong Lock !

Well, I know the title is a bit intimidating as we have always read about the "Key" being wrong or  right  and not the "Lock" itself. But what if we always had the  Right Key, but are  trying to open  the Wrong Lock !
This thought came up in my mind one day due to incident that happened while I was in Gym. Well,I just reached the gym ,lost in some random thoughts , the traffic and other unnecessary stuff signed the  register picked up a key for the gym locker. Entered the changing room and tried to open a Locker I thought was mine. I was sure that it was my locker and struggled hard to open it and when it didn't , I kind of felt frustrated and was about to rush out to complain that the "Key" does not work !( Isn't this what we always do ? Complain ! Sometimes to God,Sometimes to people,Sometimes to ourselves !... ) And then I realized  I was opening the wrong locker. I tried to recall and understand why would I even remotely try to waste my energy and open a wrong locker and then it occurred to me fairly clear. As I was picking up my key , another guy was dropping off his key which had a certain different locker number printed on it and  lost in my random useless thoughts ( the traffic frustrations, the unknown energy sucking ones...) I imprinted his locker number in my memory ,completely ignoring the Locker number imprinted on My "Key" !

And a thought occurred to me right then... Isn't it weirdly similar to what we do in our daily lives ? Lost in our frustrations, meaningless energy sucking thoughts We completely ignore our own Key ( Our own Strengths ) and look at other people's Keys ( Strengths ) and then try to open locks (Ambitions ! ) that we were not even ours in the first place and neither were we even meant to complete them.When all we ever needed to do was focus on our own Key !

Would not that change the whole equation, or the way we see things. I know the situation still remains the same, till the point the "key" gets to its correct "lock".  But Isn't it more encouraging or motivating to know that we always had the key in our hands, but what we are trying to open is the wrong lock . As metaphorical as it may sound,but It actually means that we  have the right Key i.e. right skills,the right things, and the right talent but the only problem is that we are always trying to use it unlock the wrong gate or someone else's locker( alias Ambition ! ).  And I know you might have already started to victimize yourself with why all this had been happening to you or why you have to try and work to unlock that wrong locker and why even after knowing you still have to be in that wrong place, Well, all I have to say is Stay Victimized,Stay Complaining or  feel blessed  and stay hopeful that eventually all of us are going to find our Locks the one that will open only with  one key that is our own ! In case you still have not got it, Locks here are a metaphor for something that you want, for someone it can be a job, a new house, a Loving partner or a any thing that you want But at present you might be feeling that you are just at the wrong place to get all this ! But as I said in one of my previous posts that sometimes being in the wrong place at the wrong time can actually give you something so right, something that you always wanted and desired for, but just dint believe  ! Similarly, just hold on to your key (Your Strengths...), and "believe" ,because sooner you are going to find the right Lock ! Just be focused and look closely at your key, because Gym Keys are good , they have a Locker Number on them ;) , but surely there are signs on your key as well, you just don't know how to read them... And as matter of fact to decipher a code so closely linked to something that your brain does not understand, as I always say, stop using your Logical thinking unit (Your Brains ! )  and let your EMU (Emotions Processing Unit - Your Heart ! ) Work, because it can do wonders beyond your Imagination and  even if sometimes it gets you hurt(Sometimes really bad ! ) ,you still Grow Stronger and get closer to your Destiny... All The Best ! :)

P.S. (Unrelated ! )  - I believe the harder you are hit to the ground, the higher your Karmas Make you Bounce Back...like a crazy ball...So in a way its good to be crazy :)  Enjoy your Karmas Be Crazy and Feel Alive !

Friday, November 2, 2012

The Paradox of Vicious Circles

Vicious Circle, something that everyone says they are caught in , but something around which everyone starts to web their life ! Everyone is of the view , The Vicious circle is a bad thing to get caught in , yet everyone finds comfort in using it as an excuse for not doing something they really like and want to do, not traveling somewhere they really want to,not seeing someone they really want to ,not calling people who should be called , by saying : "Damn, Its because of my job ,my routine,The vicious circle that I am caught in ,which stops me from doing what I really want to ! " . I know ,it sounds familiar, but read it again and think for a second "To Whom ,Am I giving this excuse ? " . And The answer You get is "Myself" ,shocking right ? I am sure the curious minds reading this have a question for me "Really? what makes you think that I am creating this web of vicious circle around me ? On the contrary,I am the victim and I am getting trapped !" . And my answer would be "Sorry ! I disagree. You are the one creating a wrapper of this cozy vicious circle around you ,in which you wanna hide and seek warmth , when you can actually tear it right apart and feel the sunlight and air around you. " . Sounds Bookish ?

Sorry I disagree ! And to justify my disagreement , a quick definition of Vicious Circle : A condition in which one Situation leads to another situation , which in turn aggravates or leads to repetition of the first situation .And this goes on..... Unless you take courage and break the Jinx of this so called "Vicious Circle" .

So how to do this Herculean task of breaking the shackles !!!?Well, It need not be something very big, you can start with smallest of the things that you always "logically" thought might not be worth doing. It can be as small as "Taking a different route to your office ! (Sounds scary ? Right, that's what makes it worth doing !!!) , take out your Bicycle , your car, your bike , go on that road you always avoided, for you might actually find life at the end of it, go to that old tea stall that you once visited just for a cup of tea that could be easily and should be logically made at your place ( As per your routine,your vicious circle !) ,Grab that phone, call a friend whom you have not called for so long , go out for a walk to a park that you always saw on your way to office, it need not be a fancy park ! Cook something on impromptu, play a game that you have not played for so long ! Get your Bicycle,ride it like good old days,go for a jog in some park that is far from your place and you "logically" thought was not worth going to ! Visit an old friend , visit your school, go to someplace , get moving !

Does not sound "logically" correct, does it ? That's the whole point, we were not made to be "Always Logically thinking" Digital units, we were made to be humans !

Vicious Circle is nothing but an "Eagle" that surrounds dead bodies that are out of life. Stillness is death , Movement is life , being dynamic, being spontaneous is life ! Do something on impromptu today ! And all of a sudden you will see , that the Eagle of Vicious Circle is no longer interested in you, because now you are moving, you are living ! And Vicious circle follows the still and eats the dead.

It is one of the biggest Paradox of our lives of getting caught in a Vicious Circle , when all the circles Vicious or Non-Vicious are Owned by us Created by us, and nurtured by us ! We are the Creators and We are the ONLY ones with the Power to destroy it , to not just get dragged by Life but to actually Start Living it...Definitely Worth a thought...Go for it...

avandia